No, please don't. That question was rhetorical, not an invitation for you to try and convince bystanders that anyone who disagrees with you is a shadowy Agent Of Centralisation or an idiot. You use that tactic way too much: it's obnoxious and you need to stop it.

Hard forks vs soft forks are purely about whether you drag along old nodes in a quasi-broken state. They do not reduce total work needed by the community one iota. Non-miners who wish to reject a soft fork can easily run a node that does so, if they wanted to - the voting mechanism still boils down to "which side of the fork do I accept in my economic activity". It's certainly garbage to claim that the reason to want to avoid soft forks is being an Evil Centralised Foundation:  this is about a set of engineering tradeoffs only.